The former Destiny Child singer said she is rubbish when it comes to love and dating because she scares people off with her controlling nature.


Kelly Rowland told The Mirror: “The desire to be in control and decide everything myself as much as possible gets in the way,”


“The fact that I can act a little bossy has ruined quite a few dates. I choose the restaurant, I open the door myself, and sometimes I’ll even pay the bill. I really have to learn to let a man be a gentleman.



“That’s probably one of the reasons why I’m single. I get in the way of myself when it comes to men.”



The X Factor judge who previously said she was too busy to have a love life has said she does not mind being single.



“I’m actually single but, you know, you have your little things on the side. There’s nobody I’m dating but I have a special friend.”